One of my deepest desires is to bring more vulva love to the world, let’s be honest, there can never be too much vulva love! In this article I'm going to share with you my top 5 vulva moves to really get you going.
Whether it’s self-play or partnered-play, the key to sensational orgasms is through a bigger build up. This includes hinting at what may happen, enticing the whole area to engorge and become full of sensations. On average, it takes 45 minutes of touch to fully awaken the vulva, that is way more than the usual 5-10 minutes of foreplay.
Below are 5 of my favourite vulva touches to awaken her and intensify pleasure:
1) Heart & Yoni Connection – hold a hand over both yoni and heart, bringing presence and warmth of your hands to both areas. This beauty builds the pathway between heart and yoni, helping both to relax and open.
2) Vulva Vibes - cup the vulva with a whole hand and vibrate the hand. Try out different speeds and pressure. This touch brings blood flow and kickstarts arousal.
3) Opening Her Slowly – using three fingers to slide from the vagina to the pubic mound, separating the inner and out labia with two fingers and the inner labia with the middle finger. It’s delicious to vary the touches and direction, sometimes just the outer two fingers, sometimes using all three, switching upwards and downwards movements.
4) Clit-Wakening – using two fingers, draw circles around the whole clitoral hood and head. Not directly on the clitoris but around the head of the clitoris, occasionally touching the clitoris head. This can be incredibly teasing and build more anticipation of what is to come.
5) Drawing You In - Place a finger at the vaginal opening and allow her to draw the finger (or cock or toy) inside. If you’ve been through the moves above, she will start desiring penetration. A vagina that craves penetration makes for way more pleasure.
There are so many delicious ways to bring love and pleasure to vulva’s, these are just a few in an endless list. Curiosity and exploration can reveal some incredibly pleasurable sensations, grab some oil and take your time relax into the wonder of vulva love.